Unique Dual-approach | Wellbeing & Mindset
INDEPENDENT PLAYER CARE PROVISION
Protecting the person behind the player
WHAT IS PLAYER CARE?
The term Player Care isn’t universally understood and can sometimes be reduced to “showing concern” and giving a pat on the back.
It is actually about risk management. It recognises that players carry pressures from work, family, and financial stress onto the pitch.
For a lot of clubs with no current Player Care provision in place, or structured emotional support, this is the difference between a consistent squad and one that succumbs to external pressures because of life outside of football.
WHAT YEM PROVIDES
Independent support players actually use. A confidential outlet that prevents issues building in silence.
Wellbeing + Mindset provision, handled by an experienced practitioner so players are more emotionally secure and mentally available week to week.
Practical tools and routines, not lectures - theory-light, practical-heavy, built specifically for football environments.
WHY THIS MATTERS
Most clubs are confident they have “performance” covered through some form of sports psychology or internal provision. You have coaches for tactics, fitness, and technical work. However, ability is rarely the main reason a player drops out of form or fails to reach their potential – it is usually the pressure of life off the pitch impacting their wellbeing.
Statistics show that only 38% of male and 26% of female players feel comfortable raising mental health concerns with their club. They stay silent, and eventually, their performance drops, or they really struggle to “be present” in training and in matches.
Put plainly: we provide a wellbeing provision so players are mentally available more often, more consistent week to week, and feel supported by their club.
“Tristian has been excellent to work with, he is attentive and an excellent communicator, he helps you understand the why and works with you to find the best way to find solutions. Tristian is very easy going and makes you feel comfortable. I would 100% recommend it to anyone looking to improve their mental game or explore wellbeing support!”
Nathan Shepperd The New Saints FC“I’ve found the sessions really helpful and beneficial, both from a personal life perspective but also for my performances. Being able to get stuff off my chest with someone who I know understands me and my pressures makes a huge difference to what I carry around in my mind week to week”
James Crole Newport County AFCHOW IT WORKS
YEM uses a simple framework called the 3C’s – Calm, Challenge, Clarity. Developed by Tristian, it’s a flexible model that can be applied to different situations, sessions, and tools, but the outcome is always the same: less noise, better thinking, and clear next steps.
CALM
Reduce the noise and settle the mind. Create a safe, supportive space where the player can speak properly, without pressure, judgement, or having to appear strong or competitive.
CHALLENGE
Identify what’s really going on and shift what isn’t helping. This is where we unpack the real trigger (not just the surface frustration), challenge unhelpful patterns, and get clear on what needs to change moving forward.
CLARITY
Decide the next step and keep it simple. The player leaves with a clear action, a practical tool to use immediately, and a sense of ownership over what happens next.